Sonja Morgan is so happy that her life is wonderful and therefore she doesn’t have to resort to trash-talking her friends behind their backs. And since Sonja thinks everything is hunky-dory, so should we!
Beginning with the scene at Ramona Singer‘s birthday party, Sonja was disappointed to see her fellow Real Housewives Of New York stars badmouthing her (and her businesses and her mental health) behind her back. After all, even though Bethenny Frankel has been visiting a therapist since the dawn of civilization to deal with her not anger anger, she’s no doctor and neither is anyone else!
Sonja begins by complaining that was nice to Heather Thomson even though Heather was “talking badly about my business behind my back,” but it is Carole Radziwill that she’s truly upset by. “What was with Heather’s BFF Carole knocking my consultations with a psychopharmacologist? Carole isn’t a doctor, and I don’t know why she thinks that she knows what’s in the best medical interest for me.” Yeah – we’re talking about a woman who willingly ingested testosterone for an “experiment.”
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“I’m currently seeing a neurologist and an endocrinologist in conjunction with the psychopharmacologist–they are all working together to regulate my hormones and my vitamins, and I think that I would know what’s in my best interest,” Sonja explains. “The psychopharamacologist will decide if I need to take any prescriptions, and yes, they do know a lot about vitamins, as they should, and how they interact with medicines. Then I will decide if I want to take a prescription. This is another example of one of the women just being critical and starting rumors. If Carole is really concerned about my health and what my psychopharmacologist does, she should come to me instead of talking about me to everyone in the world in pure speculation.”
Sonja also expresses her disappointment that the women made fun of Robin, the Swami Priestess who is going to channel Sonja’s vortex of energy right into a Nigerian prince who just needs $10,000 to access the family jewels and then will split the proceeds with Sonja!
“I’m not surprised, too, that Bethenny was not receptive to me telling her that I am seeing my friend Robin Cofar, who is a Swami Priest and Yogi,” Sonja laments.”In Atlantic City, Bethenny told me that she thought that I needed to see someone and start talking about the things that are going on in my life. Robin and I are doing introspective work, so I thought that Bethenny would want to know that I was taking her advise and trying to slow things down a little bit as she suggested. “
“Instead of being supportive, Bethenny just attacked me! Bethenny has stepped back into this group of girls with a preconceived notion of where I am at,” Sonja complains. “I’m not surprised that Bethenny is being harsh with me, because she is very hard on herself. I feel she isn’t taking the time to get to know the real facts in this particular moment. Bethenny wants me to talk to a shrink, because that’s what has worked for her. It’s great that talking to a therapist works for her, but that’s not how I operate.”
“Bethenny and I are very different people, so we are going to go about getting centered in different ways. I wish that she would respect that I need to follow my own path instead of her trying to force her life experiences onto me,” adds Sonja. “Everyone is an individual and has their own story. The sooner we all realize this, the happier we will be. At least I feel she really cares, and she’s damn funny.”
In fact, it is Sonja who actually feels bad for Bethenny – after all she’s the one with the bad attitude and the real problems.
“I don’t like when Bethenny says that her talk show and marriage were both failures,” continues Sonja. “I don’t like to look at any life experience as failures. Both the talk show and her marriage brought her to where she is today, and Bethenny needs to focus more on moving forward instead of thinking about her past experiences. I know that I am very grateful for my marriage and for all of the moments I’ve had in my life. Bethenny has a very strict view of success and failure, and that’s why she views my toaster oven venture as a failure. I view it as a growing experience, because I learned so much from producing the toaster oven, and I was able to take the knowledge with me and transpose it into my Sonja Morgan New York fashion line. That’s how I finally got here! We can’t forget that we can learn something from each of our life experiences and that we need to focus on moving forward, not backward. Your past can only restrain you if you let it.”
However Sonja’s psychopharmacologist does think she may benefit from a therapist as well. Dr. Amador – accepting new clients that never want to truly heal?
“I feel bad that Bethenny had such a tumultuous upbringing, but I’m glad that she is trying to reestablish her family roots for her daughter. Being a mother fundamentally changes a person, and I can see that in Bethenny,” Sonja says continuing on a positive note. “She is becoming more introspective and trying to figure out how to live her life in a way that is most conducive to being a mother. I completely understand why she said that choosing between her daughter and hanging out with the other women isn’t even a decision. I struggle with the same issue. There’s nothing more important than being a mom, so the other women should respect that Bryn is Bethenny’s priority.”
Moving on, Sonja is hurt that she wasn’t invited to the boxing match because she “loves boxing!” Maybe because her priorities were with her psychopharmacologist, her Swami, her daughter, and her ever-evolving business plans? “I don’t know why Carole wouldn’t have invited me, because I know that I always invite her to every group event I do,” Sonja writes in her Bravo blog.
“I’ve noticed that Carole has become more dismissive of me, instead of taking the time to really hear what I’m saying. This makes me sad, because I thought that Carole understood that I am always one to support artists, and I would think that she would support me as I have supported her,” Sonja continues. “In fact, she was the first person to say I am an artist and that I should take my caburlesque Off Broadway. I thought she enjoyed my sing song skits that I write. She said I was hilarious.”
Sonja is also frustrated that Carole paled at being compared to Sonja in her dating proclivities #TruthHurts “I don’t know why Carole was so upset when Luann said that her boyfriend is ‘Sonja young.’ Is it really so bad to be me Carole?! I also can’t believe Ramona said that my boyfriends are just toys. The men who I date may be young, but they are established independent men who don’t need me to support them. I’m just happy that Carole has a man right now. I’m not trying to poke holes in her relationship like all of the other women are trying to do to mine.”
Also, Sonja says she always works out in her bathroom because she’s a multi-tasker. “When you saw me working out, it really is a good representation of my life. I feel like I am always trying to do a million things and that really exemplifies that! That slice of life also really shows that leopard is my neutral! I don’t think I could have put more leopard in that room if I tried.” Oh I dunno… maybe she could get a live-leopard as a pet next. I could see it. I totally could!
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