âItâs finalized!â says Phaedra Parks of her long divorce from Apollo Nida.
The Real Housewives Of Atlanta star filed for divorce in 2014 when Apollo began serving an eight-year prison sentence for about three zillion counts of fraud. Since then, Phaedra has been focusing on her children and trying to disentangle herself from her marriage.
Now that sheâs finally a single lady again, Phaedra is not entertaining the idea of reconciling with Apollo once heâs released, even if he IS a changed man!
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âI never say never, but in this case, I donât think that will be a possibility,â Phaedra informs vlogger Raq Rants. âAt the end of the day, weâre friends and we have our kids together, so weâll always be friends. Weâll always have a relationship.â
âIâll always love him,â continues Phaedra to ABCNews, âbut as far as being in love with him romantically, Iâm definitely not at that place in my life anymore.â
So what does it feel like to be divorced? Well, to Phaedra it feels like being a failure! âIâm glad that Iâm able to enter a new chapter in my life, but at the same time as a woman and, as probably an anal person, whoâs very ambitious, you donât want to be the most successful business person and be a failure at personal relationships.â
Phaedra shares that âwhere they feel [Apolloâs] absenceâ most is in her sons who look for a father-figure. Worrying about exposing her sons to a new man is why sheâs is so hesitant to start dating again. Although perhaps a lil romance is in store for Mama Parks â she and Porsha Williams have joined a dating app! âWe are trying to navigate those waters,â Phaedra laughs, âWeâre very excited and happy about that.â
Ayden and Dylan are doing âvery, very well,â however, although they havenât seen their father in person since that lone visit filmed by Real Housewives Of Atlanta last season. Future visits are ânot in our schedule at this time,â reveals Phaedra. Yeah, so much for that co-parenting thing.
As for Apolloâs reaction to being divorced, a source connected to the imprisoned former reality star tells TMZ that this is the first heâs hearing of it. Letâs hope his prison-pal Juicy Joe doesnât suffer the same fate!
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Switching gears to the upcoming drama on Real Housewives Of Atlanta, apparently this season is all twisted up! âAll the strong personalities make for a very exciting show,â muses Phaedra. âYou get all that together and itâs like a whirlwind, honey! Itâs like a tornado.â Is it⌠gone with the wind fabulous, then?!
Phaedra and Kenya are finally able to be in the same room together. Calling them friends is a âmis-characterizationâ Phaedra explains to Raq Rants, âbut we are at place where we can do things together without it turning into a knock-down, drag-out fight.â
âBFF â no⌠But we have definitely evolved,â Phaedra continues. âThis season we really got to be cordial. We actually had lunch a few times. She invited me to tea!â However Phaedra âdoubtsâ sheâll be allowing Kenya anywhere near the vicinity of any men in her life.
âCynthia and I are in a better place. She was being a little mean with me last season. Of course now sheâs going through the same thing Iâm going through,â shrugs Phaedra.
Phaedra has no concerns about how RHOA will fare without NeNe Leakesâ looming presence. This is the first season NeNe will have absolutely no role.
âSheâs gone,â confirms Phaedra. âI have nothing against NeNe, and Iâm very happy for her success, but this is an ensemble cast; itâs not âThe HouseWIFE,â itâs the Houseâwives. Plural.â
âWhen people say, âItâs this personâs showâŚâ thatâs not accurate, because if it was their show they would have a spinoff,â snarks Phaedra. âThatâs not being shady,â she adds, âthatâs just the truth.â
Finally, Phaedra, who has been devoting her time to political and humanitarian causes, is heading to South Africa next week to speak at the Essence Festival there. The RHOA cast traveled there a few seasons back and it was, well, a trip!
âCounting down the days to #EssenceFesticalDurban @essencefest! I will be speaking alongside @iamsteveharveytv @estelledarlings @neyo and many more!!â Phaedra posted to Instagram. âFor more information about the event schedule and tickets please visit: http://essencefestivaldurban.com/ #Essence #EssenceFestival #Durban @essenceâ [Credit]
TELL US â ARE YOU SURPRISED PHAEDRA AND APOLLO ARE OFFICIALLY DIVORCED? ARE YOU EXCITED TO SEE PHAEDRA AND KENYA SIPPING TEA TOGETHER?Â
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