Kathryn Dennis has been the star of Southern Charm since it debuted three years ago, much to the chagrin of a few of her co-stars. Today she took a few minutes to chat with Amy Phillips on her Reality Checked radio show about everything from how she was cast on the show (and wound up the center of most storylines) to what really went down between her and Whitney Sudler-Smith and what her current status is with Thomas Ravenel.
Amy started off by asking Kathryn the question that the âhatersâ ask the most: why she needs Thomas to support her when she comes from a wealthy family. Kathryn shared, âHe needs to support me because we have two children together. Not only that, I put my whole life on hold when I met him. I left college, I was three years in at USC. He told me we were going to have children and I wouldnât have to worry about anything and then he totally off the grid. He hasnât called me, helped our kids, seen our kids in months. He hasnât given me money, so thatâs why I am asking for his help and support.â
On how Kathryn got on the show, âI was working in politics in college and one of the bloggers that covered the sizzle reel about Southern Charm knew Thomas and had reached out to me because heâd written a few stories about me and he asked âthereâs this show coming out and it sounds like you, are you on it?â and he told me to get in touch with his friend Thomas because he thinks Iâd be really great on TV and thatâs how I met Thomas.â She says she then did a Skype interview with Whitney and another producer and then she met a few of them when they came to town and then everything snowballed from there.
Kathryn says she didnât know anyone at all before the show started filming. âI was so nervous going into that pool party and left knowing everyone.â She says it was Whitneyâs pool party but she went alone and then she did later attend another pool party with Whitney at Jennaâs house. (the one where she went with Whitney but left with Thomas)
Was it love at first sight with Thomas? Sheâs not sure. âI donât know. I think it was that I saw stability in him. He seemed like this business man who was strong and everything I wasnât out of college â I was kind of a Landon back then.â She says she didnât know of Thomas beforehand â she knew of the Ravenel bridge and then general name was familiar but, âI didnât know Thomas was a playboy and infamously known.â
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How does her past with Whitney and the fact that heâs a producer affect her job on the show? âItâs definitely put a lot of stress on the situation between he and I because he feels like this is HIS show, kind of. He created this whole idea and I came in and corrupted it, so it definitely made it awkward. It seems like heâs more bothered by it than I am. I donât know, I can see them and film with them and Iâm perfectly fine. I donât LIKE them, but Iâll live.â
What did Whitney want the show to be if he thinks Kathryn corrupted it? âI think he wanted some Downton Abbey proper type of something, but he doesnât realize this is not a documentary, itâs reality. He wants to control every little detail.â She adds, âI think he wanted it to be drama-filled but he wanted it like Thomas was going to be the Playboy type and dating around the first season and I kind of came in and took his wing man away from him. And heâs butt hurt about that.â
Does she think Whitney was in love with her? âHe was definitely saying things that would allude to that idea, yeah. But I think it was just a guy trying to woo me and say all the right things. âI could see myself marrying you, youâre such a great girl, you shouldnât be with Thomasâ. He is completely lying when he says it was nothing more than a one night stand, a moment of weakness. No, he pursued me for quite a while.â
She says Whitney was messaging her wanting to hang out (before the show even started) and take her shopping and give her a makeover. She then went shopping with him and a friend of hers for shoes for Patricia and said heâd bring her back to the fancy shoe store when they were alone. She says he wanted to buy her a lot of stuff but didnât want her friend to see it.
It doesnât make Kathryn mad that Whitney is denying these things on the show. âI know the truth and he knows the truth. Heâs the only one who looks like an idiot when I watch that stuff.â
What made Kathryn decide to stop hiding the Whitney stuff after three seasons? She says that she decided to be a little more forthcoming about it and not protect Whitney anymore. âI didnât like Whitney trying to turn Thomas and I against each other based on a lie. Especially when I could easily come clean.â
On Thomas Tweeting and deleting random things about her, she thinks he gets drunk and confused about what he Tweeted.
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On JD wanting Thomas to get a paternity test, Kathryn says they had already determined paternity when she was 8 weeks along. âThereâs some type of new science â we had the tests sent off to a lab in Delaware and they gave us the results early.â She says Thomas knew already when they were shooting that scene that he was the dad. âI was like, really?, heâs going to put another smear on our sonâs life already?â
Are they speaking now? âWe donât communicate at all. He hasnât seen the kids since February. We have no relationship.â
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